Loving can hurt...

Love does not guarantee a happy ending. Sadly sometimes no matter how deep the love you have for a person there's a chance you might not end up together. Love has different stories to tell some are good and  some are bad. It doesn't mean he/she is right for you he/she will be.

I recently watched Me Before You, a movie based on a novel published written by Jojo Moyes. I could say it is one of the movies that you will weep and give you heavy feeling after watching it — not a happily ever after.

The movie is making me think about love in a different perspective. It is scary to be loved and lost it in an instant. Sometimes I wonder if loving someone is worth the pain, the risk of you getting broken if it doesn't end well. Yes it is a gamble but in this life full of uncertainty will you let yourself feel miserably because of it? It's a good question most people surely will say yes but for some whose doubtful might say 'I don't know'. Things aren't easy just because you fall inlove, not a paradise we thought it could be when we were just teens. You'll invest your all with a mind hoping for a forever. That's not the case at times.

Love can be overrated. It can ruined a person. It can shattered a person's life. It can break the strong and teach the fragiles. But like Louisa to Will love is still the best feeling, can change you to become a better person, to learn new possible strengths about yourself you never know of and can give your face the happiest smiles, memories that you can take even if fate will not favors you. 

Remember — War of the Son Review

At first I was hesitant to watch this korean series as the friend who recommended this told me the plot was kinda the same as to that film Miracle in Cell Number 7. She also said that the series mostly contain more drama than romance. I’m into romcom plots with a little bit of msytery that’s why I’ve doubts if this drama would catch my interest.

Plot

Seo Jin-woo has a special condition called Hyperthymesia which allows him to remember almost every day in perfect detail. While his father, Seo Jae-hyuk on the other hand, developed an Alzheimer’s disease, making him lose his memories. When Seo Jae-hyuk was wrongfully convicted of murder, Jin-woo vows to prove innocence of his father. Four years later, Jin-woo becomes a lawyer to put the real criminal behind bars but bribery, corruption, and betrayals would not give him an easy road to justice.

Cast

Yoo Seung-ho as Seo Jin-woo
Park Sung-woong as Park Dong-ho
Park Min-young as Lee In-ah.
Jung Hye-sung as Nam Yeo-kyung
Namgung Min as Nam Gyu-man

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The ending is quite cliffhanger, you’ll guess if they will end up together or just like that — apart.

Yoo Seung-ho is perfect for the character, his emotions from being happy to sad is notable, one minute you’ll see him smile and can feel the pain he is feeling afterwards. Being a son suits him well, they have connections as father and son in this series. You can see the emotions through his cute eyes. The agony, anger he's feeling through out is commendable.

Park Min Young is one of the best korean actress you’d like to watch every now and then, aside Healer that I enjoyed watching, this series also left an impact because of her. After seeing her on City Hunter I could say she's best being an actress. Always looking forward watching series lead by her.

Oh I wanna kill Nam Gyu-Man, he is annoying lonely villain that you pity but hate throughout the series. He plays his character to the point you fear his face just by looking at him. He has that aura that could kill whenever he wanted to that scares me hahaha OA me. Kudos Namgung Min! I previously saw him in The Girl Who can See Smell and I must say I really wanted him to be punished with his crimes and acts. Hahahaha. Him dying from suicide is somewhat light for him to suffer. He deserves to be killed in a notorious ways. 😁😁😁

This series tackles power that our society has nowadays. Framing somebody to get the job done or for someone to get away is more likely present in every country. There are some who don’t believe in justice anymore that’s why they act on their own. And the drama is perfect for those to believe again that there is still law that is fair believing truth is more important than facts. We can also see gangsters who dream big here in this drama.

All in all it is recommendable to watch, to spend hours just to end the series.

Facebook

Facebook has pros and cons, sometimes you’ll find it useful and at times the negative will affect you as well.

The thing about this social media in my honest opinion is that it sets the society on what is blessed, smart, lucky, beautiful to some people. Having lots of likes on a picture you posted for some makes them pretty, admirable or accepted. Or posting an all English sentence will let you think you’re smart enough. You can also cyberbully easily thru facebook making target the topic in a comment thread is one click away from everyones mobile phones. Sadly but true.

Facebook or any social medias must not signed up teens below 15 as they can be easily targeted and still gullible. Nowadays you can see tons of selfies of teens, posted posts, links and so on, it is their pregogative to do so I admit and parents job to monitor their kids. But as an observant person, they rely much on social medias that they forget the value of privacy.

I know I sounded negative, it also has advantages that we can offer lots of benefits, facebook will reunites you to people you haven’t talked or seen for a while. It helps people in a long distance relationship to keep the communication going with their expanded video calling chatting in a free data capacity.

For some it tends to be their shock absorber by letting out their emotions by posting it. It helps for some I guess. They feel like they have someone who can listen to their struggles without being judge, not unless people read it think otherwise.

Facebook when use wisely can be a lot of help for everyone. Every now and then you can see news where facebook is the medium they used for someone to get arrested, cases resolved just by looking searching browsing the social medias nowadays.  Good thing these offender could not resist logging in *thumbsup*

Anyway this post is solely based on my opinion even I coulnd’t guarantee myself not to explore facebook or any other social medias.

Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationship will be hard for each party if the love they have for one another is not that deep enough to fight for the sadness they will feel all throughout the process.

"I don't think I can do LDR" as the reason for break up isn't valid. Cut the crap! If you love someone dearly then you'll find reasons to make it work.

             
Surviving LDR will be hard yes but with the right attitude, genuine love for the person they can achieved this ultimately. There are challenges along the way yes, all they have to do is to hold on to the feelings they have and everything will fall into places. Besides this is a test they have to face and win or lose sadly. It is crucial to be in this kind of relationship but as they say if you love the person there is nothing you can't do just for the both of you to be happy.

Patience and understanding the situation will have a vital role since it is unlikely to be a smooth sailing phase of the relationship. Heads up and do your part for it to be successful. Make am effort and someday you will see the reward.

Hats off to those who are in a relationship like this and still patiently waiting to be able — hug, kiss, cuddle the person closest to their heart but are miles apart and yet they're excited and more inlove with the person. Nah I am not in a LDR kind of relationship, I was trying to tell something that makes sense from my senseless mind. Hahaha.

So if you are in or going to be in a LDR situation then I must say go, sign up for an internet plan, buy a good quality headset/earphone and oh smartphone is needed, install chat calling apps available, drink your coffee eat your breakfast and talk to that girl/guy in her/his pajamas getting ready for bed and giggle, laugh and talk nonstop and enjoy the moment everytime you are connected and be the happiest couple that you can be.