Being nice...

We struggle being kind. There are times being nice and kind is not the solution to every situation. I've read some time ago a qoute like "being nice sometimes meant weakness for others" I do believe people nowadays confuse kindess to being weak.

I tried to be kind and nice all the time. When you want to live by "Kill them with kindness" but failed to do more often than not. We are after all human bound to make mistakes in different aspects in our lives.

In my honest opinion if one is unkind towards a person, it is perfectly fine. Okay in a sense there must be a reason and not just becoming rude. We can be not-so-nice  whenever we wanted to given in a distasteful situation in different scenarios of life. Life is beautiful, but not blissful most people believe it to be. It is not perfect. This chaotic world need kind people yes but be brave enough to utter your voice, say and act what you want without hesitation of becoming unkind — with justiable reasons of course.

I am rude sometimes, disrespectful to some, far from kindness I thought I would be. But rest assured I meant every word I say, I act the way I act because that's what my heart is feeling — no filter.

All I'm saying is that do not pretend to be goody goody just for the heck of it.

It is always a case to case thing. Do not be mean just to be mean. That's something you must not do with people. Atleast for me I know you shouldn't.

I thought of Pink's Fuckin Perfect while posting this. 

Where are you?

Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
You I always pled
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Wipe the tears I shed
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Let's share coffee and bread
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
To tell the book I’ve read
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Off to some places our feet may lead
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Sandwich for you with a spread
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
Come tonight and sleep in bed
Where are you?

Roses are red
Violets are blue
A life with you til we’re dead
Where are you?

This is a poem I wrote months ago. Being single sometimes will make you feel alone wishing you have someone who looks after you — making you happy. Well we can never get what we want, you just gotta believe in God's perfect timing.

I always wonder where is my other half? That soulmate I always think and ask if I get to meet in this lifetime or the next after.

Hey! Where are you? Are you in a relationship or we're on the same page looking for each other? I'm just here waiting for you to sweep off my feet hahaha! Sometimes I do wonder if I've already met you or going to meet for the next few days.

You know i'll promise you forever, that I will be next to you for the rest of our lives blah blah blah till death do us part.

Wahhhh feels like this post is an open letter to that one special guy I'm going to marry. Yes please I'd like to get married someday.

Ramyun! Kimchi!

Not into spicy food but I really couldn't resist eating these two spicy food originally from Korea.

These two are best to eat during rainy days and you would not feel the coldness the weather brings.